We should accept the fact that there is a difference between men and women. And in terms of emotions, recent research shows that women are able to feel their emotions and even talk about it at the same time while men can’t do this, instead they can either feel or talk.
Therefore, if the man of your life finds hard to talk about his emotions or the woman of your life is talking and feeling at the same time and confusing you, you should understand that there is a physical reason for that.
It’s definitely necessary for us to learn to talk things over later and not in the heat of disagreement.
A brand new year and a brand new us. Are we full of excitement and hopeful expectancy or does it feel like more of same?
Whatever it is, let this be the year that fill our lives with inspiration. We just need to believe in ourselves and surely we can do what we want to do, be what we want to be, reach our potential and even fill our lives with joy.
Let the powerful energy of positivity sweep into our lives and raise our game.
This is the year that we can turn an ordinary life into a great life! Claim it!
If we will pick what we want to do, it’s play but if someone else tells us that we have to do it, then it’s work.
Yes, sometimes we struggle to accomplish what is expected of us. BUT sometimes, we should stop to think for a moment: who really holds those expectations?
It doesn’t matter if we’re trying to meet expectations of our parents, teachers or friends but what toiled us is under the critical eyes of a vague somebody who always judge—like a phantom judge. Yes, it’s hard because in the eyes of this phantom judge, we’ve never done enough….never done things well enough.
Therefore, I believe that there is nothing wrong if we will try to find both our capacity and happiness by setting our own standards around what captured our heart and what has meaning for us.
Here goes a famous saying,
“Doubt yourself and you doubt everything you see. Judge yourself and you see judges everywhere. But if you listen to the sound of your own voice, you can rise above doubt and judgment. And you can see forever.”
We should believe in ourselves for we can’t rise higher than what we thought of ourselves.
What we do believe about ourselves is very important.
The next time you are experiencing a lack of something in your life, check on the belief you’re holding on. Review on where are you not good enough and not worthy enough…..and of course, your willingness to receive.
We should accept that deep inside us, something is valuable, worth listening to and worthy of our trust….we should believe in ourselves!
They say that our burden is equal to our strength….what are your weaknesses? What are your strengths?
Actually, if we’ll go deep to these questions, we will find out that they match.
We should understand that life needs us to bring out our strengths. And in order for this to happen, we have weaknesses that calls our strengths to solve them. Isn’t it ironic? Isn’t it clever?
Here’s a famous saying:
“We acquire the strength we have overcome.”
How do we take something away? Simple, we must begin to see how much we have added things that really aren’t there to our picture of reality.
Yes, it’s really hard to let go but in order to attain knowledge, we should add things every day and we can’t do that unless we attain wisdom by removing things every day.
We should try to appreciate the truth and spaciousness of what it is in order for us to have more.
Just let it go! —the past is over, forgive yourself and move on.
We shouldn’t discard our fantasies and dreams as just a merely wishful thinking. Instead, we should honor them as a message from the deepest part of our being about what we can do and what directions we can choose.
We should feel and know what are the deepest heart-felty desires , dreams and visions we want for it will reveal us of who we are.
To dream doesn’t have age limit, it’s always renewable….unstoppable. We just need to build our dream.
Here goes a famous saying,
“Everybody builds a dream in their lifetime. You’re either going to build your dream, or somebody else’s. So build your own!”